We adopted a female cat from Celia Hammond six months ago. She was 9 months old. We have two DD, 4 and 7.
Over the last month the cat has starting daily stalking and prowling around the younger child especially, once even attempting to pounce on her back. She’s left a deep scratch on the hand of DD1.
We been to the vet twice in the last month in case there was something we weren’t aware of. The vet now says it may be better to rehome her as we can’t trust her not to hurt the children. We’ve tried Feliway and painkillers as the vet though she had some tender swelling in her back which may have affected her mood.
The cat is fine with DH and I but she does try to nip our ankles. Is this something cats do? DH had dogs as a child, I didn’t have any pets but the cat refuge did a home visit and spent a long time matching the right cat to us.
DD1 is distraught and has been in tears all day at the thought of not seeing her best friend ever again. She’s very attached to her and adores her, this is her first experience of losing someone you love. Any advice on how we can help her? We’ve tried to explain that the cat may be happier in a home where adults can look after her, and that our children may like a cat that doesn’t lash out or prowl around them but I don’t know what else I will help ease the pain she is feeling. Any advice to help either the cat or daughter?
We really don’t want to rehome her but we are worried about what may happen when we aren’t in the room.
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Cutandpaste · 04/12/2017 00:28
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