Long backstory and many posts on here but situation with neighbours has finally come to a head.
They had been feeding him (they had Dreamies there with them despite owning. I cats) then told me they stopped that but my ginger tom Benjamin was still spending 15 hours a day with them.
She told me the other day that she only ever lets him in when he "asks" and always leaves the door open, but he never comes when he's called unless I text her and ask her to let him out so the door can't be open as if he could hear his biscuits he'd come.
was hanging washing out in spare room and saw him on their shed. I opened window and called him and he stretched and started towards me. Got down into their garden and she comes outside, picks him up, takes him inside and shuts door.
I text her and she said she would let him out but that he didn't like to leave her house... Then text to say he was outside but wailing to go in and if I called him he should come (he didn't). Still no sign!
So now am in process of drafting text saying have been patient but he's not her cat and stop letting him in! Is this wording ok? AIBU asking for her to stop letting him in?
"Hi, sorry to hassle you but would you mind not letting benny in anymore? I know you like his company and it will be hard for him but we hardly see him at the moment and are trying to get him to learn this is his home as he is often a bit distressed/anxious. Know it will be hard but think it's best for him x"
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BigPawsBrown · 27/04/2014 20:51
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