We purchased a gorgeous golden cocker spaniel pup just over week ago. He is now 10 weeks old.
My parents also purchased one of his litter mates and we explained to the breeder at the time of viewing them that we planned for my mum to look after the two pups in the day while me and my husband are at work. The breeder didn't show any concern in fact she said how lovely it would be.
Fast forward to now and despite both being only 10 weeks old, they start to play fight as puppies do and this escalates in to a full on fight for the top dog position. My mum now keeps them completely separate in the day. However, yesterday my mums pup was crated and Tommy went over to him for the first time that day. He peed by his crate and mid flow, we popped him outside thinking nothing of it. He came back in again and did the same thing. In total he peed 3 times in quick succession. We could not work out where it had all come from! My mum also said how she had struggled with them both and that Tommy would cry constantly when crated when she was dealing with her own pup.
At home, our pup has got in to the habit of deliberating peeing in his crate even though i've deep cleaned it so many times (and by this I mean, he lays by our feet just after toileting outside; gets up and pees in his crate while point blank staring at us).
It is really getting us down and we have no idea what to do. I have cried every day since getting Tommy and it's putting a strain on my relationship with my family as they are worrying about me. Today I was sent home from work in floods of tears as while I love this pup and want to keep him with all my heart, I can't see any quality of life for us, my parents and the two dogs.
I contacted the breeder who laughed and said "well this can happen" which was so unhelpful.
I don't know what to do or where to turn. Please help me.
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RusticFern · 08/10/2019 13:12
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