my god, she's low level horrible to me. I was just writing this morning's exchange down and it sounded really feeble so I scrapped it. She's not abusive. She has never said she hates me, but her body language, her facial expressions, her tone of voice, the way she interacts with me says different. I feel like I have fecked up with her and I don't know how.
We are opposites and she doesn't like the kind of person I am. She's quiet and withdrawn, I'm fairly garrulous. But I wasn't at her age, so I know how she feels to some degree. My mum was borderline abusive, and I have tried so hard not to be that mum, but sometimes I feel like screaming in her face about how disrespectful she is and making her feel crap, but I know it won't achieve anything.
Just lately I've responded by moving myself away from it all...leaving the dinner table earlier with the excuse of work (I'm just finishing a college course) and shutting myself in the living room rather than putting up with the eye-rolling sarcasm of any rare morning exchanges.
I'm just venting...but if anyone can offer any advice on how I deal with this without getting pissed off with her, I'd be so appreciative. Even if it's just 'get a grip'.
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badasahatter · 06/06/2017 08:49
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