Daughter is in an improvers swimming class - she was late to learn, and has made some good progress. She grumbles about how she will 'never go swimming' when she's a grown up, but grudgingly accepts that it is a life skill it would be worthwhile acquiring. I feel it would be best for her to achieve the outcomes of the class (there's a portal where the instructors mark up the distance swum, stroke confidence etc).
She started her periods a year ago, and uses pads. This means she misses swimming for her period. She also goes to a club which meets more or less once a month on the same day as swimming, so misses the lesson for that as well.
I don't want to force her to try tampons, but have suggested them a few times and she is totally resistant - she's also quite gleeful when she announced she won't be going swimming. She's generally missing half her lessons now, with the way different timings are working out.
I don't want to force her to use tampons, I don't want to force her to give up the other activity, but I do wonder whether to push the issue a bit more - on the weeks she does go swimming, she does well, but I feel she's getting into a frame of mind where she thinks she's not going to get any more confident at it, and the fact she's regularly not there feeds this. Should I be more pushy? Should I point out that if she goes more regularly she'll hit the targets sooner and then won't need the lessons any more? Should I just let it go?
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OOAOML · 23/03/2017 10:18
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