Hi, I need some advise on how to deal with this. DD will be 13 in March, in the last few months I think hormones have hit with a vengeance but since before xmas she has stopped eating. Today she had barely a mouthful of her dinner (shepherds pie and veg), ate one broccoli floret and a mouthful of cabbage, also today she has had a glass of premade smoothie and one of my slimming world sausages that were in the fridge (pre-cooked). Today has been a good day! She has lost a lot of weight over xmas and is looking and feeling terrible as a result. She says she feels sick, which I am sure is because she has not eaten. We were due to go out for a walk today but when she got ready she felt sick so did not come. She fainted on a family walk over xmas and was violently sick on the car journey home. Possibly due to car sickness or that she had a hot chocolate and biscuit which we took on the walk and insisted she eat due to fainting.
The thing is I really do not know how to deal with this, she did this once before in Year 6, refused to eat for about 3 weeks, and then started again and was fine. I tried then to not make a big deal of it, and we seemed to get through it, I'm trying to do the same now - not making a huge fuss, gentle encouragement, lots of healthy food snacks in the house. Inside I am panicking that this isn't. "Phase" again. Has anyone got experience of this? What else should I be doing, should I be playing it down? She does not sleep well either. I have rang the school where she does see a counsellor and am hoping she will call me so I can make her aware of the food issues. I am not aware of any other issues at school. She is hugely body and fashion conscious, always watching fashion and makeup blogs etc so starting to limit internet. Any other suggestions? I am panicking this will develop in to a full blown eating disorder!
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yummumto3girls · 08/01/2017 21:02
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