I'm not really sure why I'm posting this really, other than I have no one else to ask (GPS dead) and friend's kids are younger!
We live in an admittedly small cottage (but big garden). It's lovely though - warm and cozy etc. We debated an extension so that my two DSs didn't have to share a room, which they did up until about 1.5 years ago).
That would have meant borrowing though, so in the end we had a really nice outdoor room built - fully insulated, powered etc. Fully heated. DS1 (the 16yo) wanted to move into it as a bedroom so he has and we did it up really nicely - to my mind it's a teenagers dream! Xbox, music system, sofas, posters everywhere etc. (It's bigger than most living rooms).
DS1 though, maintains that he is deeply ashamed of our 'tiny' house because all his friends have big houses (tbh they do! Apart from his bf who lives in an equally small house!). He's just such a snob!!! Thinks that people are judging him etc. DH and I are non-materialistic and liberal, I can get my head around DS1's attitude or problem. I agree that eventually we prob WILL need a bigger house, but at the moment DH and I (and DS2) are perfectly happy and don't want to move.
I suppose my question is - is this normal? I KNOW the answer is probably 'yes' and I remember being deeply embarrassed of everything and anything my parents did (how I wish I could apologise to them!!), but I'd love to hear any thoughts you may have? I feel such a sense of sadness that I can't give him what he wants on this occasion (that would be wrong, plus we don't want to) but it's still hard never-the-less!
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DS(16) hates our house & wants us to move
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knitknack · 02/01/2017 19:55
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