Ok, so my DD is 12 yrs 7 months - I know this is way too soon to start worrying that she hasn't started her periods but bear with me.
She is 5 foot 6 and growing daily, about 9.5 stone, size 6 feet. I believe that she has pubic hair but I'm not allowed to see her naked AT ALL. She told me that she shaves it all off, I said I was ok with her shaving armpits and legs but not ok with her shaving her public hair. That was something she could do when she was older if she so wished. She has boobs, is a size 34A.
We allow her privacy, we knock before going in her room etc. She always changes by her door so she can slam it shut if you try to enter when she is changing.
About 8 months ago she asked me for a bigger bra (via a note left on my pillow) and said she was worried about periods. I tried to talk about it to her but she won't discuss it. She was mortified going for her first bra fitting but the lady in M&S was lovely so that helped.
I wonder if she is somehow managing to mentally stop herself from starting her periods?
I started at 12 yrs 3 months, my sister was 11 years old. I know these things are familial that coupled with her height and weight make me think that something is not right.
I don't plan to take her to the GP, I know they would just say that it was too soon to worry etc etc. She would be really cross if I suggested it.
We are quite an open family, kids have always seen us naked and we don't make a big deal about bodies etc. I've bought her books about puberty and am open to discussion, she does know this. I do make sure that I don't go on about it. She can ask anything. I don't embarrass easily.
I don't think that she has started and not told me, there is no evidence of this at all. She is all prepared with a little make up bag in her school bag with spare knickers, sanitary towels, nappy sacks etc. She didn't want to carry it in her bag but I explained that if she wasn't prepared and it happened at school she would have to go see matron to to spare her blushes she should carry it with her.
Sorry this is so long! Any experience/advice welcome.
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No periods yet - concerned
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lucjam · 21/01/2015 12:00
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