Like most other posts here he is a typical teenager (14)
Thinks he is entitled to everything and that the trees in our garden have money growing on them.
Tidyness and organisation are a constant battle with him, it goes in one ear and out of the other.
Cut to Saturday, he spent the day round his friends. I drove him there and picked him up, round trip of about 15 miles.
While he was out DW and I emptied his bedroom, tidied up the walls where there were lots of holes from shelves, TV's, Pictures etc. Re painted (quickly), cleaned the whole room top to bottom, re laid it out so it was more functional, generally spent all day on it.
His reaction when he came back;
"It's alright"
Had a chat about keeping it tidy, laundry, crockery and rubbish.
Sunday, I happened to wander into his room to find him on his Ipad with Laundry, crockery and rubbish littering his bedroom.
Cue me telling him that this was unacceptable, he should clear it up and do the things he has to do before the things he wants to do.
Then from downstairs I hear DW having a rant too and I could hear him on quite a few occasions during the rant tell his mother to;
"Shut up Mum!"
I walk upstairs to find him in the bathroom about to brush his teeth;
"Son, I don't ever want to hear you speak to your mother like that again. I suggest you do what you have got to do and spend the rest of the day staying out of our (Me and DW) way"
All this was fairly calm until DW joined in again ranting that she was sorting it out, trying to butt in (although I probably did in the first place) and this started a disagreement between me and DW.
That's when I saw red and went into a verbal rage at him, shouting and slamming doors. (real childish behaviour)
But I'd had enough of him disrespecting the his mother and all the things she does for him.
Arghhhhhhhhhh. Teenagers!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
After that Sunday was a quiet day in our house
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Andy1964 · 20/11/2013 17:13
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