I don't get it and want to finish it.
My DD has always been a confident chatterbox, its always been brought up at parents nights but in a benign way, I always got the impression she was one of many. She is not Mumsnet-Bright but keeps up academically, hands in work on time, gets good reports for effort etc. I never got the impression she was annoying or disruptive to the class. Since starting Secondary, however, she seems to be getting labelled that way. She says in nearly all teachers are using technique of joking at her and trying to incite the class to laugh along if she has to be picked up on something, also only having words with her even if she is one of many or has not been doing anything at all. She says it is only or mostly her, not other kids they use this with.
I haven't taken much notice so far, thinking it all due to the differences of Secondary teaching and her indulging in some self centred griping. I asked her who doesn't get this kind of attention and she said the boring kids. I suggested she model them for a couple of weeks to see if it makes a difference, but she was unwilling. So, I think it is likely it is her behaviour, but what exactly is it and what should she do?
Also, what if it is not bad behaviour on her part( or not any more than any other occasionally chattery girl in class), but something else causing her to be picked on and scapegoated? It has gone on too long, a couple of years now.
I don't know and wonder if anyone has experience to offer or advice in this situation as my daughter is getting very down about it. Its not just one teacher and some have downright shouted and thrown things at her. The worst one is in her worst subject and she feels she cannot ask the teacher for help when she is stuck.
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Why does DD get teachers behaving like this?
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WideScreenViper · 28/10/2013 23:39
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