I have Asperger's Syndrome and I think this affects my ability to decide if clothes are "appropriate" for the occasion or not. I get DH to help me but sometimes he doesn't know himself when it comes to women's clothes. His mam never worked either so he doesn't have a role model to base it off in that regard, and my mam hasn't worked since I was a lot younger and she dresses a lot more conservatively than me. So if i ask her questions now her answers will be strongly influenced by what she thinks is proper, not neccesarily appropriate to the situation.
I work doing admin in an office for a charity. It's quite a chilled atmosphere and the dress code is "smart casual". This is like, the worst thing to tell someone with Asperger's because I have no idea what that means. I tried to get clarification and my line manager told me blue jeans were not ok, but black ones were, and that he would show me a powerpoint on dresscode, but he never did and I was too embarrassed to ask again. That was months ago when I started.
Anyway my questions...please don't laugh .
Is it ok to wear bobbly tights/leggings? When does bobbly become too bobbly and therefore unprofessional? And when does it become too bobbly nonstop and need to be binned?? My dad told me one of my jumpers was too bobbly and I needed to bin it but I hadn't realised and it was one I used to wear to work as well.
Is it ok to wear coloured tights/patterned tights? I only wear black tights and black leggings at the moment but I was wondering if it would be ok to wear red tights or is that too far?
Is it ok to wear black knitted Ugg boots? I've been wearing brogues the whole time I've worked there but the other day I was already out before I went in (I work part-time) and I was wearing my Uggs and I was going to change out of them but nobody said anything so I left them on...does that mean it's ok?
Is it ok to wear tops that show my shoulders as long as I wear a strapless bra?
I appreciate you don't know my work place exactly so just wondering general thoughts.
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Can you help me re: what's appropriate to wear to work (and elsewhere?)
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MeadowHay · 11/02/2017 20:15
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