So I’m just looking for some advice here and pointing in the right direction.
I have been with my parent 3 years. My partner has a daughter from a previous relationship (8), he sees her at a minimum 2 nights a week. He works shifts meaning he is in work every other weekend, so the weekend he’s if off he has her Saturday pm to Sunday pm.
We had a weekend trip planned around Christmas which involves him swapping the day he has her, which was planned in advance (6months) and he arranged to have his daughter another night to compensate. He has turned around now and said he doesn’t want to go anymore as he won’t see her over the weekend so is cancelling the trip and having her instead, this isn’t the first time he has just changed his mind and cancelled plans with me to have his daughter.
I’m not sure if I am being unreasonable here, but please don’t think this is me trying to get between them or being jealous. I am not that way at all and I wouldn’t mind if it was down to an emergency and his daughter needed him or even if we hadn’t made the arrangements before but I think to repeatedly change these things last minute is just hurtful as I go out of my way to organise these things, I make arrangements with my family and also I have spent a long time looking forward to going.
Inviting her along as out of the question, we are going with a group of adults and we will be going out to bars etc
What are your thoughts ?
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Tooconfused123 · 05/12/2019 07:04
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