Yesterday dss (5) and dd (6) were caught (for want of a better word) licking each others bums and dss showed his willy to dd.
DP and I sat them down together, discussed how private parts within pants should not be shown to anyone else and certainly no licking/touching etc.
Told them this behavior was very serious and to emphasise the seriousness we told them that they could get in trouble with the police.
Children were upset, of course as naturally I felt this was pure innocent but we had to nip in the bud.
We feel they understood about their private parts being for them only.
We don't bathe the kids together and as for toilet etc, girls go with girls and boys with boys etc. So this I feel was enough.
Anyway, I mentioned to dss mum about the conversation we had to have with both and now I'm worried that she may use this against us.
How normal is this behaviour? Did we deal with it ok? Any suggestions otherwise?
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Stepson and Daughter licking/showing each other bums. How to handle?
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deVelvet · 02/09/2016 13:22
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02/09/2016 13:25
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