Both Step Kids were out most of yesterday, so I had a quick check in their rooms to see if there were any plates, cups etc, which shouldnt be. Whilst in SD's room, I see she has written a TO DO list on the wall, such as prepare for camp (going away), plan B for universities (she is probably not going to get into first choices) and the last was "Make Dad feel special". This made me feel very hurt . Anyone who has read my recent threads knows that I am going through a tough time at present, and I do not get any support from DH. From that comment she has written, it confirms my feeling that I am the Bad Cop in the household, when in fact it is me that needs to be felt special because of the work I do keeping this household together, and the things that I do for the step kids which they probably dont think about at all.
For those who dont know my history, we took the 2 step kids onboard fulltime 1.5 years ago, and I have had major problems adjusting. SD is 19 in January, and SS is 17 in October so not young.
Her written comment is playing on my mind. I wish someone would make me feel special.
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Probably an over reaction but it irks me!
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Tappergirl · 27/07/2014 08:54
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