The more I've read about ASD, the more I can see these traits in DH. He has no friends, always seemed to miss an 'empathy gene' in the sense that he is really bad at reading people and situations. He can be really bad at having to respond to something at work e.g. explaining to his boss that he has to do x,y, or z at home so will have to go early. He can never understand why I'm stressed even when you look at the context e.g. busy week, work deadlines, problems with kids. He sometimes just seems bemused by emotions.
Also, he listens to me talk (alot) but never really responds with anything. He's completely unable to provide refelective listening or constructive suggestions about a problem.
He's never once looked at anything on ASD in the ten months we've been undergoing this process. He leaves everything to me.
I have tentatively suggested parallels. It went down like a lead balloon .
However, I think it explains alot of what we argue about.
Any thoughts
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
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Do you see any ASD in your DP/DH?
lordreid · 26/10/2009 09:12
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