Hi, i'm very new here and need some advice. I dont even know the abreviations to use. I have one son aged 22 months whom i suspect has autism. I did the m-chat and failed on 2 critical and another 3 questions. After a long struggle with my HV and GP (who think i am just anxious) i finally got the referral to have him assessed. It may take a very long time i am told and so wondered if anyone knew how i could go about having this done privately. My time on the internet is very limited as i have a 10 week old daughter too. I do have a few concerns about her as she took quite a while to make eye contact and smile (my son was 12 weeks old before he would look at me) she wont coo or gurgle like other babies i know....anyway to cut a long story short, i am terrified and very stressed. I tried for 12 years to have my babies with lots of heartache and miscarriges along the way. Now i've entered a world which feels very isolated and full of tears. My children haven't been vaccinated as i was sure there was a connection with autism so i know this is not to blame in my case. I think this is the reason the GP thinks me neurotic. I also dont want to come accross ungrateful for having my children, my little boy is a joy and lovely but with me being an older parent (44yrs)i am concerned about his future and who'll care for him. Am i jumping the gun as i haven't has a dx yet? I know there are parents on here with a lot more worry and heart ache than me so please forgive me if i sound selfish. Someone to talk to would be great. Thankyou to anyone who responds.
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joooly · 01/08/2009 14:38
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