My ds recently dx with AS (high functioning - very bright, high IQ, imaginative, never stops talking, but very inflexible and has major sensory problems) has since the beginning of nursery pushed other children completely unprovoked. If a child walks past he will stick his elbow out, if he is sitting next to someone he will suddenly push them off their chair, if playing outside he will push the closest person.
There doesn't seem to be any malice it is more like an impulse that he cannot control, I expect to do with over stimulation of his senses. He doesn't usually do it in small groups or in one to one sitiations (although he has sometimes) and he only does it with his peers, not adults.
Clearly it's better for him to be in smaller environments without lots of children, but as this is near impossible at school, how on earth can I help him to control this impulse?
All the mums and dads aviod us, all I hear after school is ''DS' hurt me mummy!' and it's really getting me down so so so much not to mention affecting ds's self esteem, as he doesn't do it to be mean. He is actually incredibly sweet and thoughtful, which makes it even harder to take.
Any one have any experience or advice? Thank you!
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how can I help ds (recent AS dx, 4.4) to stop pathalogically pushing other chilldren?
MrsLukaKovac · 09/07/2008 20:44
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