My son is so embarassing - well to others he is - and I suppose he is in a way to me but I am so used to him I don't let it embarass me otherwise we could go no where or do nothing. He has aspergers and speaks his mind and has meltdowns when things go wrong. I try to pre empt when something will go wrong which will result in a meltdown but I am not psychic and sometimes something happens in a split second which sends him over the edge and I am not quick enough to stop it. I rarely apologise in public if he has a meltdown as i try to concentrate on calming him down. Unfortunatley no one else can cope with the embarassment so is generally just me and him these days. When he is in full tantrum mode when other people are with us he is shouted at and told to shut up, grow up, stop being pathetic!!! My husband walks off and apologises to everyone in sight and says 'he is so so sorry, we are trying to change him but he (my son) just doesn't want to listen" . DH is finding it really hard and other people who I thought understood have said it is really hard on my hubby as he gets so embarassed and can't I see how embarassing he is to others-. I have no one on my side helping me deal with it - I really don't know what I can do anymore -except stay in our own little bubble. He is picking up that no one likes him anymore. So sad don't know what to do :0(
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
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