So I feel like I'm struggling with this this week. I've got twin boys who are 4 with ASD. They are at mainstream nursery and it's a week full of parties and games with Father Christmas going in on a couple of days. The boys are unaffected by it in a sensory/change of routine etc way which is good but that's just it, they are unaffected by it. Totally oblivious to any of it and it's making me really sad.
They are my only children so for large parts of the year the way they are is just the way that they are. I almost forget that they 'should' talk because it has become our normal that they don't. But this week I've got that punched in the stomach feeling when I see how excited NT 3/4 year olds are. Seeing them chattering with their Mums or coming over to talk to me at pick up time is like being repeatedly smacked in the face with how different mine are.
I know it's a difficult time of year for many people for various reasons. I know this all might sound ridiculous and all about me. I'm lucky to have two gorgeous happy little boys, and the main thing is this is not a problem for them. It's just something else that hits home things aren't turning out as I imagined they would. Anyone else feeling anything similar?
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nomorebuffalo · 16/12/2014 13:01
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