DD2 is 5.3. She's 'quirky' and 'individual'.
She got really very cross with me today. I need insights as to why.
So:
Background - DD2 has been off all week with a bug. DD3 insisted on going to montessori despite having a temperature of 38.5 degrees. Checked with montessori, who were happy to have her as everyone seems to have had it/has got it, so no point in staying away. When DD3 came out of preschool, we walked to the shop and were on our way home.
Incident - DD3 coughed repeatedly.
Me: 'Oh DD3, you really aren't feeling well, are you?'
DD2 (really cross): 'Why are you saying that I'm not poorly???? I am!'
Me: 'I didn't tell you that you aren't poorly, DD2.'
DD2: Yes you did! Yes you did! Yes you did!!!
Me: DD2, I really didn't say you aren't poorly.
DD2: Yes you did, I heard you! You said 'DD3, you really aren't feeling well are you, and I am not!'
Me: 'But DD2, of course I said DD3, you really aren't feeling well are you, because I was speaking to DD3.'
DD2: But why did you say I'm not poorly, when I am?
Me: DD2, I wasn't talking to you, sweetheart. I was talking to DD3, and I know that you are poorly, because I've been with you all day, but DD2 has been at Montessori.
DD2: Well I am poorly.
Me: I know that, DD2. Do you understand now that I was talking to DD3?
DD2: Well I do now because you told me about it!!
Help me unpick it, please. I know there is something not quite right there. I know it. People are telling me she's just 'August-born', but there is something in the way she's hearing or processing the language, I'm sure of it. This is typical of her - she gets so distressed because she hears something different to what is being said.
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
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Any SALT knowledge or other opinions welcome :)
Lougle · 09/11/2012 14:01
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