OK, so I've lost count of the amount of threads I've started regarding this problem, but the situation is getting worse and worse.
I'll try to summarise, dd is 16mo.
- Dd has never ever slept through the night.
- Dd started getting into our bed at 4mo.
- At 13mo, I successfully managed to get her into her own bed at least in the evening.
- She stays there usually between 2-3 hours and then gets in with us.
- Some nights it can take me 3 hours to get her to sleep.
- The main problem (IMO) is that she wants to come back downstairs.
- She gets so upset that the only way I can calm her down is to take her back downstairs (this doesn't happen every night, sometimes she goes down fine).
- I am sick of going to bed at 9pm.
- I have barely any relationship left with dh.
10. Now she is waking in the middle of the night, screaming.
11. I'd say it was teeth, but once we turn the light on, she's fine.
12. I've never tried CC with any success.
13. I've even resorted to giving her milk in the middle of the night to make her drowsy and more likely to go back to sleep.
14. Last night she was awake between 12am and 2.45am.
15. My patience is wearing thin.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!