The dentist has warned us that dummy use is causing ds's teeth to become misaligned and could lead to long term problems so we have to get rid. DS is two and a half and uses dummies for all sleeps, except for the occasional time he'll fall asleep in the pushchair walking home. He's used dummies for sleeping since he was about 6 weeks old, when I was going out of my mind as the only other way he'd sleep was on the boob. He doesn't have dummies except for sleeping.
I'm dreading it, I'm not sure he even knows how to sleep without them. After an awful first 18 months, he sleeps through 8-6 most nights and has a two hour nap in the afternoon. It'll be horrible sleep deprivation for both of us, for sure, but I also feel awful taking away something so important to him. I don't want to do it really, but I would be irresponsible to let this go on, when I can see that it is causing him harm. (I'm sure this is not the case for all dummy-users, but the damage is already visible, so it's not just a precaution here).
I've spoken to him about the dummy fairy coming to take the dummies and give them to new babies, and that she will leave a present. He was quite positive about this! But not sure he realised that meant giving them up for good.
But how do you do the first night - do you give the present first, or wait until the morning like Christmas?
Also, I guess I'm going to have to ask nursery to stop the naptime dummies at the same time as it will be too confusing otherwise.
Anyone else been here or along for the ride???
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EffinIneffable · 02/01/2018 14:21
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