21m DD wakes up at 5.15ish am every day.
If I felt this was just her 'natural' wakeup time, I would live with it, but she is EXHAUSTED all morning, from about 7am onwards.
Here is what I have tried:
A later bedtime (the WORST option, it just leads to overtiredness which I think is the worst culprit for her early waking)
An earlier bedtime (this has occasionally worked but not consistently)
Scooping her into bed with me the moment she stirs (no luck, she just lies in bed with me and flails until I give up 90 min later)
Leaving her in her cot (not to cry, as she will scream herself sick, but leaving her in there with reassurance after a hasty cuddle (NOT getting her out) and saying it's still night time, sleep tight etc...
Giving her a quick drink and also doing the above, doesn't help.
Leaving the heating on all night (!!) so it's not too cold...
Putting her in a sleeping bag/duvet thing designed for wriggly toddlers, so she's not too cold...
NONE OF IT WORKS!!!!
My info does really suggest that overtiredness is the biggest problem as on the (rare) morning when she sleeps until 6am or thereabouts ( a lie in!!) it ALWAYS corresponds with a good long nap (2h) the day before, and a nice reasonable bedtime, on the early side, at 7pm latest.
However what with her being so tired ALL the time, due to missing out on up to 2 hours sleep each night, combatting overtiredness is an ongoing battle; I can't FORCE her to nap for 2 hours each day and she regularly wakes up after only 1h 30 (and is then tired all pm!!).
She has never been a late waker, 7am would be a pipe dream, but we did have a month or two of 6.30am which was bliss... that was back in the summer but it's been no later than 5.30am for months (and the clocks changing was just hell, we went to 4am instead!!)
If I really think about it, things seemed to solidify around the 5.15 mark when she dropped her morning nap... until then she'd been often-enough sleeping in longer.
Has over tiredness caused by all those loooooong morning stretches without a sleep (5.15am until 11.30ish am, which is the earliest I can put her down otherwise there's too long a gap before bedtime after she wakes up from her nap) caused the problem, perhaps??
Should I try a short early0ish morning nap, 9am or thereabouts, for 20 mins or so, for a few weeks until we've hopefully solved the OT issue??
Many friends with early-ish waking babies said they all miraculously slept LATER in the mornings after dropping the morning nap, but the opposite is happening here, if indeed that's even the thing that made the problem worse in the first place...
Should I try wake-to-sleep, in desperation, which is the only thing I think I haven't tried yet...?
ANY advice, or even just solidarity, please help me!!
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