We had the usual 2hr sleeps as a newborn. Struggled through until week 6 when we went to a birthday party where she went to sleep at midnight & slept til 6am (in cot) Amazing. She did that for 8 weeks.
Then one night she woke at 3am and wouldn't go back to sleep deeply (am bf) I would get her to sleep, put back in cot but she'd wake after 30mins or an hour or two.
This went on for 10 weeks getting worse. I fell apart at a baby group one day & my husband told me either we leave her to cry or you co sleep but this can't go on.
I can't leave her to cry, so cosleeping started. V safe- not overweight,no drugs not drinking, hardish mattress etc.
Done that for quite a few weeks now (40w this week).
But I am shattered, she is crawling so is zooming around the bed at 2am 4am. I am bf her to sleep.
She's only gone to sleep once on her own at night by rocking & walking- there was some yelling.
Daytime naps- 2 & she bf to sleep, or out in the pram or in the car. Won't let me put her in the cot though.
My SIL has got her to nap by walking her in the living room & she yelled for a few minutes then slept.
Have been doing No Cry sleep solution. But stuck at the nipple removal & going to sleep by herself. Happy playing in the cot.
I think she has object permanence now.
I am constantly getting bugs, I can't think straight, no energy for walks out in the pram, very low.
I need sleep
Please can you advise me the least awful way to get her to sleep through as I really can't manage any more.
(Thanks, sorry it's a bit long, been lurking on the sleep board for ages & I know it's helpful to know what's the current situation. Also she's pretty high maintenance baby compared to all my friends babies)
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milktraylady · 23/01/2014 10:59
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