I started dating a guy after my failed marriage. My confidence is not the best - I gained a lot of weight. However, I think I’m really good in bed. I started seeing a new guy and he loves to give feedback in bed (we are into BDSM so I understand he likes to be in control). But it’s getting to the point when I’m worried what I’ll do wrong. Every time I give him blow jobs/hand jobs he starts navigating my hands and fixing their position. Now he just sent me a message - article with blow job tips... I like that he knows what he likes and I want to learn him. However I’m not sure how to not take it personally. I’m kind of dreading another blow job As I feel like I’m just terrible and can’t get it. (I’m 31) thank you for advice.
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How not to take feedback during BJ as criticism
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IvyMayaZ · 13/07/2020 10:27
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