I’m sorry if this is TMI but I’m at the end of my tether.
My DP will not finish inside me. I hate that he won’t. I’ve asked him to do it and rarely he does. Last night I asked him as he was about to finish and he said no.
I get that I can’t force him to do anything he doesn’t want to do but for me it takes away most of my feeling of being connected to him.
He always wants to finish in my mouth, so I can never relax into it, as I know I’m going to have to hurriedly change positions at the end.
When I try to talk to him about it, he tells me that he is ‘visual’ and likes to see it. Fine but my preferences are always totally ignored.
I am on a very reliable form of contraception and he says it wouldn’t be the end of the world if I got pregnant so I don’t know what the problem is with just occasionally indulging my preference for what I view as a more romantic ending.
Am I dealing with a lost cause here? Does anyone have any tips for how to approach this with him again?
Thanks for reading.
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He won’t finish inside
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LMou · 22/06/2019 07:53
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