DS attends local grammar school, naturally bright, primary/junior teachers said he would thrive there and he is, he had some tutoring on exam technique. DD was due to sit 11+ this Sept, she is bright but finds maths hard, she gets it eventually........... started with a tutor last Sept to try and improve her maths this led on to 11+ tutoring as she wanted to sit 11+, tutor has been really honest and said she doesn’t know if DD will pass and to stand a chance would need extensive tutoring, an hour a day right up to the test, I’m against this and would worry about DD keeping up if she passed and gained a place. So last sat DD sat a mock 11+, she didn’t do very well in maths, VR and English would also need some extra work. So the test was an eye opener for DD and I have persuaded her to forget about Grammar and hopefully go to the good local comp which she seems happy with at the moment, she is keeping up with Maths tutoring to hopefully sit comfortably in higher sets once there. I know this is right decision for DD so why do I feel so crap that I’m letting her down as in not persuing a Grammar place for her to the bitter end. I know she will be far happier in the mixed comp, she will have a couple of carefree summers before senior school and we can leave all this 11+ nonsense behind us, please tell me I’ve done the right thing, people around me just seem so worked up about their kids going to Grammar.
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Bonkersblond · 09/04/2018 23:37
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