Met a guy online about six weeks ago, tall, dark, v scrummy and a perfect gentleman.
We go on, oooh about six dates, he introduces me to his friends, he stays at mine 3x ( we didn't quite get the deed done but came close...)
So far so good.
We had a right laugh together. He texts me most days. He drops hints about coming to visit more often ( notes nearby train stations etc. )
Then, he goes away for a week, but doesn't arrange to meet just before he goes. . .I find this weird and ask him: 'Do you want to see me again?' Yes he says does, I am 'great' apparently and he will drop me a line when he gets back. Then no text, no calls, zip for seven days.
I wait. Text him on his return. "hey good holiday? What's going on?' type thing. . And nothing. Not a peep. I don't even know if he's okay.
Why the feck can't men just say: 'I am not interested, sorry. . . '
This has happened to several of my girlfriends and seems so, well, immature. I've done it plenty of times- simple text: 'sorry don't want to take things further, goodbye and take care. . .'
Obv he has decided he doesn't want to take things further, but I really liked the guy and have been looking forward to his return etc. Can't believe he's actually just going to 'leave it' and not even say it !!!
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Why do men do THIS- need to vent!!
littlestmummystop · 05/08/2009 20:40
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