Name says it all really. This is going to be long but I would appreciate anything from anyone.
DH and I have been married nearly 15 years, been together for 19. DD 12, DS 5. Very up and down relationship, he was brought up in a home whether the mother did everything and he has alot of that in him (whether by choice or imbred who knows) so alot of arguments have been about that over the years, he's not the most affectionate of people although he's always said he loves me greatly. Many times over the years I've threatened to leave and take the children more as a cry for help than a 'I'm actually going to do this'. Tried relate but tbh neither of us are talkers and money so tight couldn't really afford it.
Come forward to this time last year, I had a fling, wrong yes but I wanted someone to show they liked me (and yes I realise now that this isn't the way to do it). DH found out, shit hit the fan, didn't chuck me out carried on through it but with the normal arguing and bickering etc.
Come forward again to 2 days ago (my birthday ) DH asks for a divorce says he can't trust me a) if I'm not doing anything I shouldn't be then its not fair on me and b) if I am its not fair on him. I'm not doing anything
I'm in shock, I feel sick. Although we've struggled to live together I honestly don't think I can live without him. At the moment I feel like suicide is the only option and I really worry for myself.
Yes I know I was stupid and yes I know I can't blame him but I just dont see the point of anything now and don't know what to do.
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No point to anything anymore :o(
screwedupbigtime · 01/08/2009 08:22
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