Am a regular, but namechanged for this.
A friend of mine helped me move house a month ago. We had a drink to celebrate after a long day. Basically I was then raped. My dd was away for the weekend, with her father (thank goodness). I was bruised and sore for a good couple of weeks. Told no-one. Thought I had dealt with it in my mind.
Had to have a minor op this week - and woke up from the anaesthetic with terrible flashbacks. Can't sleep without flashbacks, can't seem to eat, don't know where this has come from.
I told someone at work yesterday but they seemed to freak. I haven't really dealt with it - are there people out there who can help? Is it the anaesthetic that's got me re-living it now?- when I thought I was ok...
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Don't know if this is the best place, but how do I start to deal with an (I thought) good friend sexually assaulting me?
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laylajane · 31/07/2009 18:49
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