I am a sahm with DD (4.5) at school and DS (2.5) at home.
My mil who I get on with very well also has two grandsons (her daughters children). When daughters first child was born she went to part time hours to look after GC whilst daughter at work and then looked after both until recently. They are now at school.
To be honest my DD and DS have never spent that much time with her because Granny was always been busy looking after other GC and too tired when not. She also spends most Saturdays with daughter and other GC. As a sahm I have largely accepted that they are my children are my/husbands sole responsibility and apart from very occasionally (docs appointment etc) have not asked for any help.
Now I find that as mil is no longer looking after other GC children during day she has offered to pick up my DD only and take her back to hers have dinner and bring her back later on. I asked about my DS and she said no she wanted one on one time with my DD. She already picks up both her other GC from school one night week.
Am I over-reacting that my DS will get no time at all with her? He is very sweet and is very fond of his granny. I know he will be very upset to see his big sister and not him out with Granny. Besides that he spends 5 days a week on his own with me and he could do with a break!
Thanks for reading!
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Is it fair that my mil wants to take dd for afternoon and not ds?
MrsKing · 21/09/2008 16:32
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