obviously not my real name, for reasons that will become obvious.
I have been asked out, by someone I find incredibly attractive, who I have known for years, and I have said yes!
I dont feel bad??? I have a partner and 2 dc, my relationship has been abusive emotionally and physically for most of those years, he is aggresive, angry and a pig most days, I no longer give a monkeys, obviousliy.
But I am still in a relationship, so know this is not a good idea, but also know that my entire friends and family want me out of it.
My friend is married has no children and lives so far away i will probably not see him for another 10 years, and by this time next year my relationship will be over, of that I have no doubt, and I feel that If I dont see this man I will regret it for the rest of my life.
For him I cant speak, seems an ok relationship, there is no plans to have intimate relations, this will be drinks flirting and admiting yes there are feelings, no affair will take place he leaves very soon.
I know I am in the wrong but I think it will be ok, and to be honest I really want to see this man, and I wont see him again for years or ever, what do you think? I cant talk to my friends,Please feel free to say what you think, but also know this is not a regular occurence I have always been faithful and loving, I really think that my dp has just kicked every last drop of love out of me.
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aibu2wantalittlefun · 08/09/2008 16:44
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