The original thread for anyone who remembers is
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Dp's wife has filed for divorce as she says it is over and she can never trust him again. She says she would one day like our children to meet, but at the moment she doesn't know if she can tell her children of the betrayal on top of the fact their parents are getting a divorce and I can totally understand that.
As for xp, he has disappeared. No-one knows where he is, but both me and his wife had an email from him about six weeks after he went missing, saying that he was unable to face up to what he had done, that he was very sorry but that he had decided to leave the country and try to put his life back together. To not try to find him because he doesn't feel he can ever come home again and that he doesn't want his children to ever find out what he had done.
The police have said it's quite possible he has another secret life somewhere but they said there's really no way of knowing as he seemingly has disappeared without a trace.
So his stupid cowardly actions have left two women without a partner and 5 children without a father.
As for me, I have spent the past few months putting my life back together. My family and friends have been very supportive, it's amazing, you find out at times like this who your friends really are and what they mean to you.
My baby is due in three weeks and the pregnancy has been going well. I have, maybe stupidly, wondered if xp will get back in touch around my due date, but I don't really even know why I care any more.
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I don't know if anyone would remember me, a few months ago I found out my partner was married to another woman already and had three children.
almostthesecondwife · 13/08/2008 14:40
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