It's been 6 years and I'm still annoyed by it.
When I had my ds I was rushed in for emergency c section. Ds was fine but I needed a lot of blood and was understandably in a lot of pain. I won't go into detail but I was in a bad way.
A few weeks later I was allowed home. As soon as I got in I sat down and dp asked me what was for tea! I was stunned and replied by saying I would have thought he could sort it.
He replied ok, whilst I make the tea if you could tidy dd bedroom as it's a right mess.
I sat there shocked. Dp couldn't understand why.
A few months later I talked to him about it and he said it was just a really stressful time for him and he needed someone to help out.
I wish I'd walked away then really but I didn't because I was scared to be alone.
Fast forward to now and it still annoys me every day. I don't think I will ever get over it.
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I can't forgive dp for what he said
flashzee · 22/11/2020 07:34
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