So I’ve been dating a guy for around 3 months. I know he was involved with a girl and it was quite messy. They ended on very bad terms he hasn’t told me what happened just that it was bad.
Our relationship has been really good so far, he came to my birthday party, met my friends and made it Instagram official? Well at least I did. He said he’s a very private person so wouldn’t really share pictures like that.
Anyway twice now I’ve seen that he has searched her on Instagram. They don’t follow each other but he’s been watching her stories. We were sat next to each other and I wasn’t checking his screen I just saw. I feel like as he was so open it’s not really a thing.
Recently he bumped into her, he told me and said it was awkward. Anyway thought nothing of it as he didn’t need to tell me. But I had seen them having a chat where he said basically she didn’t speak to him and rushed off. Why is he so bothered? Is he not over her? When he speaks of her, it’s not from a place of hate but he doesn’t seem very positive about it?
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Why is he still checking up on his ex?
Overitallllll · 28/09/2020 15:22
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