NC for this post as could be quite outing but really need some advice.
I’m in a relationship with a great, kind, sexy guy. Been together for a year but for many reasons, on both sides, we have chosen to keep it entirely to ourselves (I am happy with this and suits me fine). We are both divorced and have been for many years.
Issue is his ex has now split from her long term partner. Its been a difficult breakup for her and and he is helping her through it. Problem is Ex is now spending more time with partner than I am and staying over in his house (spare room) on multiple occasions. This would be fine except his level of contact with me has reduced dramatically and now we go for days with no contact and when he does contact it’s to arrange to meet mostly for sex every other week or so.
I don’t want to appear controlling or horrible that he shouldn’t be supportive to his ex but I can’t help feeling that he is gravitating back to her. Or maybe I’m just being entirely used for sex whilst she is now fulfilling his needs for companionship. Should I just walk away or do I try to sort it out? I don’t want a relationship that is sex every other week and nothing else.
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Gjk917463 · 06/09/2020 10:39
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