I know there are so many threads out there on break ups and navigating it, but I am at rock bottom. I never thought things would ever turn out how they have, but at this present time I feel like theres no way things will ever get better. He was the love of my life, home, engaged, together 6 years. Then he went distanced and we mutually decided to break up. I thought he may sort his act out and want me. He bought me out of the home and met someone very very very quickly. It’s taken a year for him to now show this girl to the world, but I have disappeared. He told me a while ago he’d never love anyone like me and his pictures were the happiest years of his life, so I don’t get why, for someone wanting to have a friendship one day and me to leave things nicely so he can get in touch, why he’d burn the bridge.
I am so hurt, lost, and upset. I can’t help but compare myself to this girl and I feel there’s no point anymore as I’m so repulsive.
Does it get better? And how do I have the strength if his rebound relationship or whatever it is doesn’t work out, to be able to ignore him :(
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Does the pain ever get better?
Leo89 · 20/08/2020 20:39
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