Hello, I would appreciate advice on this please. Been talking to a guy on bumble the last couple of weeks, we live about 20 miles apart. He works long hours and doesn't have a lot of free time. We’ve been keeping in touch as swapped numbers, via Whatsapp. We’re keen to meet and last night he said to me ‘give me your address I’ll come and see you tomorrow night’. I replied that he wasn't going to be coming to my house. He replied asking why not, I said I’ve never even met you. He replied saying fair enough but that hes just a normal guy and asked if there’s any parks near me where we can meet and walk his dog.
This has left me feeling uneasy... surely he can see why I wouldn’t want to just give him my address to come round one evening.. then asking me why not?! I’m not hugely experienced with online dating. Please can anyone say if I’m being overly cautious .. I believe he is genuine, he’s sent me photos of him with his family, we exchange voicenotes etc but for some reason I feel uneasy. End of the day he’s a stranger - though seems like a nice guy all the same.
Thoughts/advice for me please? What would you do??
Thanks x
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Advice please - 1st meeting, cautious
Shayelle2009 · 28/06/2020 06:57
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