Quick background, very happy marriage, a few young children, never any concerns re infidelity.
I saw a portion of a message over dh's shoulder the other day, along the lines of 'i miss you, I miss the connection that we had and probably always will'
I didn't see the rest of the message. After stewing for a few days I asked him about it, turns out it was to an ex of 20 odd yrs ago who had cheated on him and is now still married to said chap. He said that he missed her as a friend as they had been best friends for a long time and our connection was far stronger etc. Confirmed happy marriage etc. Hard to talk properly as kids always around. There is zero chance they have met up or anything so I don't suspect anything physical.
But I can't stop the words floating in my head. What would you think or feel in my shoes?
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Would you be hurt by this message?
IndecentFeminist · 29/05/2020 23:27
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