Can’t do this shit anymore.
Been wiith H for almost 20 years, 2 kids, one of whom has SEN.
I am fed up of always being the one that has to think of everything, do everything and take on all the mental load and financial strain.
I’m the one that’s always in contact with school and doctors etc to fight for DS to get what he needs.
I’m always the one who makes sure homework is done, make sure kids are well kept and bathed etc. Laundry housework and all the rest.
DH is not a bad person he had just been babied by his mother all his life (still is) and doesn’t seem willing or able to take on any adult responsibilities.
He is in a low paid part time job and is supposed to be training for a qualification to move up to better pay etc but can’t be arsed to do the work and is on games console instead.
He says it’s due to depression/anxiety but I suffer myself and still work long hours in a job which pays the bills rather than the career I want as well as looking after kids and household.
We’re in shit loads of debt just trying to stay afloat. Debt is mostly in my name as I’m the higher earner and he couldn’t get a loan (yes I know how fucking stupid I am)
My patience is running out and I’ve had enough. I don’t know what I want from posting this other than to vent. I feel trapped and so angry.
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Can’t do this shit anymore
AlwaysDancing1234 · 05/05/2020 10:07
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