NC, the usual drill.
As a very brief background, DP is very good to me. Never cheated, never unkind, always caring and generous. Been together 4 years, live together etc.
He started a new job about a year ago - his first proper job since leaving uni. It’s soon become apparent that there is a heavy pub and drinking culture at this company. Mid-week drinks at pubs, full day benders for birthdays and work do’s. Prior to joining the team, DP wasn’t a heavy drinker at all.
Anyway, he’s never back extremely late or anything - usually 11pm or midnight latest. It’s just, these mid-week drinking sessions are becoming very frequent. The other night I was wondering where he was, about to get dinner ready, when he texted to say he forgot to tell me he was having a drink with his colleague after work so would be a little late (he got home at 7pm so nothing shocking). Tonight, said he’d be back about 10, but earlier on said it’d be about midnight now.
So... I’m not really bothered, overall. I feel maybe a bit envious of him going out having fun with his colleagues while I’m stuck here at home bored. I kind of feel like it’s strange for there to be so many of these drink-nights with colleagues. Is it normal? Should I be more bothered?
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Should I be bothered?
AmIadaftmug · 14/01/2020 22:30
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