Hiya, just sitting here stunned and terribly upset. My DP and I had a terrible row last night. I haven't been sleeping at all well, after an operation several weeks back and my DP says I snore, so I have been sleeping on the sofa most nights. He was on his computer last night and I nodded off and woke with a start. I said, I am probably going to have to take the bed tonight as I am exhausted. This then caused him to go into a rage on me and say 'I work 12 hour days! You've been up for a row all night well now you've got one'. I hadn't been up for a row all night at all, I had been crying a little earlier, as recently I had a relative pass away and it hasn't been that long either since I lost my Mum. I am very strong about things most of the time but I had a little cry to myself.
Anyway, I was shocked at how he leapt up and roared at me. So I said maybe I should leave and he replied 'Yeyyyy hoooray'! I got then very upset and he started walking about all aggressive. And telling me to move out of his way, I hate to say it and I know it was wrong but I felt so threatened that I kicked out at him as he went past. Long story short, I told him that he started this and he then told me to 'fuck off'. Got his car keys and left slamming the door calling me a cunt, with such hate and aggression I was shocked to bits.
He returned about 3 hours later saying 'go to bed' . I told him how I felt and he said I was shouting again. I ended up going to bed and hardly sleeping, while he stayed downstairs. I hardly know what to do today. I have today off and can't stop thinking about this and getting upset... I have no family still alive that can help, or anyone I can stay with. I have two lovely teenagers (not his). I really want to start again but feel it's too late and I have nowhere to turn.
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Got told to 'Fuck Off' and that I was a 'Cunt'
Rosey12 · 13/06/2019 10:50
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