DH moved out of our house a couple of months ago because he needed space and is living in a relative's empty property.
DH texted me last night to say he is not coming home. I've previously said I will do anything to improve our relationship. I am not to blam and nor is he. We've come through tought times in the past and think we can get through whatever this is.
He has not explained other than to say he does not want to be married any more. He says he is a bit happier now he does not have to worry. I don't know what he means. He is not a talker.
I suggested counselling and he said it's a waste of time. I've said I'd give him space and that I love him and miss him. He rarely answers texts. I don't want to be without him. I will compromise and work on everything if he tell me what needs to improve/change. AIBU to wait and give him as much space as he needs?
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