Hi, I never thought I'd be writing this.
Tonight I found out my DP of 4 years is using an online anonymous chat site and I just don't know what to think.
I found out as he had accidentally taken a screenshot of his chatboard on it on an incognito tab.
The chats were things like "bi girls" "London" "fetishes" "thicc girls" and I know there were more just not in the screenshot. He also had 7 private chats I couldn't see.
So I logged on to it on his phone and everything was gone. I assume he deletes it after using it each time just in case.
He admitted he had a few fetishes which aren't that norm but not shocking so not sure what to think. He said he originally got it to anonymously discuss our relationship issues (don't believe this).
He says that none of the chats have been very personal and always discussing this fetish. Never pics.
I don't know what to think. I feel so deceived. He really doesn't think it's cheating especially as it's anonymous.
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cantbelievethis567 · 11/01/2019 22:59
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