Last night, dp came back from work and when we hugged he was being very shaky and nervous.
I pushed it, and he told me he cheated on me a couple of months ago.
I'm 37 weeks pregnant today.
At the moment, I don't know how many times with how many women, but I do know that he planned it - he went online, registered on a dating site, and met at least one woman that he had sex with.
He said it has been playing on his mind, but I reckon something happened yesterday evening to trigger the admission.
I don't even know how to approach this to figure myself out. I have no family around, and I don't want to tell friends, at least not yet.
We have been together 4.5 years, getting married next year and planed this pregnancy together. He seems to adore me - even in the recent months he has always been affectionate and supportive (though we haven't had sex since I began showing, i think a mix of not finding me attractive and afraid of too much pressure on my belly).
We've been so excited for our first baby together, and this just destroyed me last night. I genuinely never, ever thought he would do this to me/us.
I asked him to leave for a while, and then after I went to bed i allowed him to come in to the house to sleep on the couch.
We're going to talk when he finishes work today. How can i believe a word he says?
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senzaparole03 · 28/05/2018 10:37
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