First post and I’m going to try keep this to the point as possible - apologies in advance!
My boyfriend (25) (I'm 24F) of 8 months is currently on a party capital vacation including brother and sister with him and then a few other lads, he will be back on Wednesday as the trip was 7 days.
Wednesday, Thursday, Friday I received check in texts / goodnight/ morning that type of thing which I was fine with. I’ve let him get on to enjoy it. However Saturday we were having a back and fourth conversation about what we had been up to and then all of a sudden I was ignored. As in, he was going on WhatsApp semi-regularly after that and not actually reading the message. Honestly I felt a bit low in the evening about this and sent a soppy text to say I was missing him. Again he went on WhatsApp later and not read. So then I deleted the message from WhatsApp as I felt a bit silly.
Fast forward to Sunday (yesterday 2pm) I receive a text to apologise for the delay however they had all been on a 24 drinking binge and asking what my deleted text said. I replied back last night 8pm ish and the message was read at 10pm but again he had been on WhatsApp numerous this morning. Then received a text from him this afternoon around 1pm staying what he had been up to and he misses me can’t wait to see me.
So to finally get to the point, I have (and I feel semi ashamed) played him at his own game, been on WhatsApp this afternoon and not read his message. (Funny enough just received a text message stating he had a cold sore)!
My questions are: given the circumstances that he is on holiday - I should relax the situation with the texting and deal with this when he gets back in a couple of days? Stop overthinking this whole thing?
Or do you think I have a right to be pissed off? My plan is to hold off replying and reading his last message until tomorrow morning (this will be difficult for me I admit).
I’m just generally really confused! He has been an amazing boyfriend up until now and I am hoping this is a glitch and everything will resume back to normal when he is back.
What would you do In this situation? And sorry for the rant !!! I feel stupid highlighting all these times the messages were sent etc but i appreciate your time ! X
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Boyfriend on vacation issues - am I overthinking?
Poppybear123 · 21/05/2018 21:21
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