So a new guy joined work about 3 months ago. We had an instant connection and got on really well. Just chatting about day to day things. Things we had in common. We were having a work night out not long after he joined so invited him. He declined because he was going on holiday. Anyway not once in these 3 months has he mentioned a gf or implied a partner. He was talking as if a single guy.
My friend at work over heard the guy speaking to my manager about his gf. I work part time so only in 2 days a week. Anyway turns out they have been together 1 and a half years. He met her online. Apparently saying he isn't committed and taking it day by day. Saying he would like to meet someone at work or something because then you know they are real. Apparently his gf lied about her age.
I just feel hurt he kind of lied and implied he was single. Even last week he was asking if I was going to the work Xmas due and saying he weren't going unless I was. I need to back away from this guy but have feelings. Feel sad. Why do men want to have their cake and eat it???
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Kind of been lied to grrrrrr
Ahhh1234 · 15/11/2017 21:49
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