Split with ex last year, he has moved on and had new baby and now lives with his new partner. We are all quite amicable. My ex is a great dad and his partner is really lovely.
In previous years I would have went to my mums for dinner with DD and ex went to his mums and stepfathers. My family christmases aren’t all day events... usually people go home around 6ish. I’m not close at all with my family. We don’t hate each other but we just aren’t the same type of people iyswim. So I would then drive up to the ex’s parents house and spend the evening with them having a great time.
Obviously last year that didn’t happen as we had split. He came to see her in the morning. I then had dinner with my family then came home with my daughter. It was ok as I wasn’t alone and she was having a great time with her new toys. We then watched a movie and it was ok. I still felt like shit as I just would love to have a proper family Christmas. Like in the movies I suppose.
Today he informs me this is his year to have her overnight on Christmas night. (I’m not complaining about this at all)
I just feel a bit shit. I rang my best friend upset thinking after dinner at my mums and him collecting DD I’d go home and spend Christmas night alone. She has offered me to go to her house that night and celebrate with her family. She is so wonderful.
I suppose I’m just jealous that my DD is going to a wonderful family Christmas with my ex. And here I am lucky enough my friend has invited me or else I’d be on my own.
I’m not really sure what I’m asking. And obviously so grateful that my friend has offered me to go. It feels better that I’ve written that down at least.
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Christmas night without DC
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frillysocks88 · 22/10/2017 23:33
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