Just sounding something out. Not sure what answers to expect but I’m st the end of my tether.
Just to give you a bit of history I’ve been with my partner for two years. When I first met him he suffered from depression which I was aware of and hoped to provide the support for him he needed. What I didn’t realise was he was also an alcoholic. I have tried my hardest to be supportive but I really struggle as there seems no end to this he constantly promises he is going to change. I appreciated this wouldn’t happen over night but he constantly goes back on his promises which recently has resulted in lots of arguments. These are always when he’s drunk as when he’s sober during the day he’s a really lovely person. As with most alcoholics he thinks nothing of lying.
Recently he has been getting close to a female who is inappropriately crossing the line of friendship. He denies anything is going on till he’s blue in the face but I am almost 100% that something is going on. My question is do I contact the female? Not to have a go at her but to confirm my suspicions as it’s driving me insane. He says I’m a psycho and that I’m being unreasonable that he wants this female as his friend. It has turned me into a suspicious insecure person but I feel I need to know as I’d rather know for sure than to feel like I’m the one with issues.
I have no intention of showing any agression etc to this female as at the end of the day he’s the one that’s cheating and is in the wrong.
Please help me with your advice as I need to know before I lose my mind
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Piperspool · 18/10/2017 20:08
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