Long time lurker.... never had a reason to post (until now!) I think I just want someone to tell me I have a good reason to be angry, which is probably an awful reason to be posting but there we go.
Anyway- to cut a long story short, I found out this morning that my partner fancies/ has a 'thing' for a new colleague. And whilst viewing porn, he has intentionally looked for videos that look like this girl. And watched said porn in conjunction with looking at her Facebook gym/ holiday photos.
He says it absolutely 'doesn't mean anything'; he 'just got carried away'... I think this is a shit excuse tbh and it's horribly disrespectful. I'm really, really cross/hurt about it. Basically, I want an outside opinion- is this something that you would stand for/ kick off about? Am I justified in being so angry about it? It's absolutely not the porn itself btw- just the fact he has been getting his rocks off whilst imagining this girl at work. Just need some perspective!! Thanks in advance!
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Partner/colleague, porn/photos
Arthurweasley · 06/10/2017 20:09
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